What Is Domestic Violence & What You Can Do About It
Domestic violence can take many forms — not just physical harm. It includes:
- Sexual abuse, whether married or not.
- Physical abuse: hitting, kicking, threats, etc.
- Property damage or destruction of things important to you.
- Stalking: being followed or approached repeatedly.
- Economic abuse: withholding money, refusing to pay or share costs, or disposing of shared property without permission.
- Emotional abuse: insults, threats, humiliation, controlling behaviour.
- Any controlling or abusive behaviour that threatens your safety, health, or well‑being.
Your Legal Options
If you’re experiencing abuse, you have the right to:
- Apply for a protection order at your nearest police station or magistrate’s court.
- Lay criminal charges and also apply for a protection order.
Who Can Apply?
Anyone who is a victim of domestic violence — including children (via a parent or guardian) or a police official on behalf of someone.
What to Expect from SAPS
When you report abuse, the South African Police Service (SAPS) commits to:
- Treating you with respect, protecting your dignity, and listening to your story.
- Explaining your rights and options.
- Taking your statement in private, and possibly arresting the abuser if there’s cause.
- Seizing firearms or weapons if there’s a threat.
- Helping you access medical help, shelter, and counselling.
- Keeping accurate records, including your protection order and any arrests made.
If a police officer fails to meet these standards, you can:
- Report the matter to the station commander.
- If unmet, escalate to the Independent Complaints Directorate (ICD).
What to Do If Things Escalate
- If your abuser disobeys a protection order: call SAPS immediately.
- Provide the warrant of arrest plus your protection order.
- If you’re in danger, the abuser can be arrested; otherwise, they may receive a court notice.
Plan for Your Safety
- Keep emergency numbers handy and accessible.
- Identify safe places you can go quickly, and have a backup plan.
- Store a “go bag” with clothes, documents (ID, medical aid card), money, and spare keys.
- Ensure friends or neighbours know about your protection order in case you need help.
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